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The Independence of Harry and Megan

I know there will be Megan and Harry bashers out there, for there are people who love to hate instead of embrace. I for one celebrate their courage to go it alone and speak their truth, for not living a life in someone else’s control which is wrong in every way.

Opening up to Oprah in honesty, speaking without filtration, and showing us their love for each other, was liberating for all who chose to see their courage and strength. When we saw them marry it was a fairy tale wedding, but it was not for them but for the people. I did a show on Sara’s Royal wedding perspective We all bought into the fairy tale dream, for we all hope for that romance and a happy ending. But, as we see it was not meant to be, the nastiness of the tabloids who chose not to like Megan, got ugly and darn right disgusting, and yet no one stood up for her, no one stopped it.

Depression by suppression and dictation is in my mind criminal, and the need to keep up a facade of perfectness is a joke. No one is perfect, and the more you try to paint that picture, the more it will debilitate, and to do it at someone else’s cost is demeaning and damaging.

On my shows we speak to embracing your own uniqueness and beautiful gift, for that is what makes you the imperfectly perfect you. Living up to an expectation of an institution or religion, or status in society is a lie and one that will at some point break and readjust you into the right direction if you let it.

Megan and Harry’s courage and love for each other, has led them to a point where they stood up for themselves and said “Stop, No More”, I can not be a mindless puppet any more. THIS KIND OF STRENGTH TO WALK AWAY FROM THE FAME GAME, MONEY AND PRESIGUE IS HUGE, BUT SELF LOVE AND CARE IS MORE IMPORTANT.

I did a show a while back on “Leave Megan and Harry alone”, where I celebrated their choice to walk away and live their lives on their terms. Now knowing the hell they have been through and the depression they battled, I am even more proud of them for placing value upon their lives. It is a true example to us all.

I am not Royal Family bashing, I have loved the Royal family and a big fan of Diane, sadly we have all seen how dysfunctional the facade of their lives has cost them, but their duty to their country and people has always outweighed the pain, or has it? Do we know what is going on behind closed doors? do we know what it has cost them to be these instruments of Great Britain? In their duty to the people, they have knowingly or unknowingly sacrificed themselves for duty. Why do they have to? why can they not be just like us and be themselves who are in service to the people of Britain?

Being in service from a truly authentic place of love and caring is where the true strength lays, and kindness to one’s self and others is our greatest strength. No one wants to know people are suffering to serve us, we want it to be something they love to do, and not have to because they were born into an illusion of how it should be.

Megan and Harry have both dedicated their lives to empowering others and in support of those suffering from depression. It is not a luxury to be depressed, it is crippling and cost lives daily, all because we have given it a stigma and a shame to it. I suffer from depression, I know the rabbit holes we go down, no one should have to navigate this alone. Good for them for being there for others going through it, bless them.

I hope their example liberates others, and also shows the institution that they way they treat the Royal family will always backfire one them , for they are not puppets.

HEAR OPRAH’S INTERVIEW HERE

By Sara Troy

Self Discovery Media

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Resistance is futile in 2021 Actionism it.

It is our human nature to fight back, we have a knee-jerk reaction to things and we like to be argumentative and be right. This, unfortunately, gets us nowhere, so why don’t we try a different approach in 2021.

We know we are still in this pandemic, we know we are in transition in our personal lives, in industries, and in economics. So fighting against it is futile. This is the time to ask ourselves, what are we going to do, what have we learned, and how are we going to seed opportunities for 2021?

Every thing, even disasters have a reason, some times it is to change our directions, sometimes a lesson about our selves we need to learn, but it is always about us having the ability to make the changes we need to move forward and not drag our selves down by what has been.

2020 was a time of reflection, a time to review our lives and go into ourselves and feel what we want for our future. A time to step up and be counted and in heart and kindness and help each other on this windy rocky path. We have so much to be grateful for, but when in fear, doubt, hysteria we can not see the gifts before us.

2021 is a year of nurturing those seeds you planted, watering, and allowing them to grow. It is a time to allow and open up to change and when you come from the heart space, your mind sees things differently and you feel more enriched by what is possible and what is growing within and around you.

This transformation of humanity still has about 4 more years to grow. If we come together and stop fighting each other, and start listening to the inner voice, we will see in how we can make the changes and why we need to, for if we do not, this planet and the source of universal energy, will change it for us and it will be a harder ride than even 2020.

So let us rise up to the occasion and be the change the world needs, be the strength and solution we need in our own lives. FOR IF NOT YOU WHO? We can not wait for others to do it for us anymore, we must be proactive in our own lives and community in order to thrive and rise up to greater heights.

Sara Troy

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We are the leaders in our own life

by Sara Troy

Most of us are at a crossroads in life not knowing where to go or how to read the signs before us.

1924

The journey forward is personal but also collective, the more we include those that can enable us the more cohesive and stronger the path will be. But who are the leaders that will safely guide us forward in our collective energy which will unite the world?
Can we turn to the leaders of today, the religious realm, the politicians, the governments and health sector, can we trust them to lead us mind body and soul? By past experience the answer is a resounding NO.
Three things wrong with our leaders today, Ego, lack of integrity and their fear of losing control. They may start off with good intent, but the contamination of what has been before is just too deep and they cannot escape the sewage of economic greed that governs this world. It is time for a complete rebuild from the start up and the principles that guide the new leaderships have to be serving the individual in order to serve the collective. Help the one to stand tall and you will help the world stand firm and strong.

No matter the advances we make in technologies innovations or cosmic awareness, we are as humans dumb. Fear, greed, insecurity and a longing to belong dictates our very way or life. We don’t care who gets hurt along the way as long as it isn’t us. We fear that we have to make a choice in our own lives because we are conditioned to follow like sheeple blindly walking into slaughter without any accountability to our own lives. But when we don’t like the results, we sit there crying over how hard done by you are and blame someone else, never ourselves.

Collective conciseness is about knowing and being aware of soul, true connected self, heart, honesty and a desire to learn more to enable the world to unite in a belief (not a religion) but a faith in mankind to do the right thing for ones fellow man and this wondrous world we live in. It is about standing up taking ownership to be willing to be vulnerable and trust, simple trust and extend the hand to another with care understanding and a desire to help them move forward into their own awareness and freedom.
When we had to count on each other for survival security and joy as a village, one took time to make sure everyone was in harmony because it served the whole village. Someone needed help the village was there, they shared in good times as well as bad and shared happiness in truth in sincere joy also.

NO this is not pie in the sky idea, those that spurn this concept that are a big part of the problem. They have bought into it is all bloody miserable so you can’t do anything about it so why try. Those people never solve anything because they have already given up and are as much dead weight at the ones that caused the problems. Just to sit there and spout what is wrong and how everyone is f—ked serves no one without a solution to the problem. No one wants to hear how bad it is but wants to know how to make it better, we are all very much aware of the wrongs in the world but how do we solve the problem without walking the same path as the leaders did?
Choices, free will belief, action, and commitment. It is all up to us. If we take ownership of our own thoughts, actions and beliefs, then we become a part of the solution. It takes YOU to make this a better world, not a world leader. You cannot complain if you do nothing to help out. Life living action is all about attitude. Do you believe in anything? do you do anything to make things better? Do you speak to hope? Do you think positive thoughts? Do you look to the brightness of life or do you buy into the misery? Your life is your choice, your action your belief, so if it is not living up to expectation then do something about it.

We are the leaders of the world, one positive person with belief and in commitment to take action to make your day better and passing the good vibration on. If we stand in our own truth, speak from the heart, speak with integrity, do not take things personally but do our very best to make our own lives a better place to live in, if we don’t judge or assume but listen and feel, we one by one make this a better world to live in.

It is up to you, are you a world leader in your own life? Are you a solution to your own problems, are you a person who is willing to give of themselves to help others. Are you a person who lives in belief? Are you a person who gives a dam? Are you a person who is willing to act of your belief and make your life better in order to make those around you lives better?
Simply put are you a part of the solution or the problem? Only you in your honesty can speak to this, and it is only your action that can lead to inner and outer balance, it is up to you, so what are you going to do about it? And when are you going to act on it?
You want to talk about it email me I would love to hear from you.
Good luck

Sara Troy

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Allowing the Knowingness

My soul is open to the divine and it speaks to my heart in truth, which ignites my spirit into opening my mind to what I need to know, when I need to know it. This is knowingness, being open to the source of life’s divine energy and allowing it to come through you into knowledgeable wisdom we can use.

This is my life’s beingness and only when I allow I do  receive, for anger, hate and mistrust, closes these doors, and only caringness, kindness, willingness and love will open you up the power within and above.

So how do we get there, this place of divine trust and allowing? We feel our thoughts, so much of what is in our heads is just a reflection of what is going on around us. So, STOP, close your eyes, take a breath and go in deep into your soul and allow the wisdom to come through. You can’t think it there, although allowing the thoughts to flow and not dictate is key, you give your mind permission to open up to what can be, and let the source run through you.

I know for many, this is scary, letting go of thoughts and control, but the only control we have is when we let go and go with vibrational love. We are all energy, and energy needs to be in flow, it needs constant movement, just like the oxygen and blood within us,  but we need to be still enough to know how to attach to that divine flow of life.

I have always been a knowingness person, even when I did not understand it, I knew, it was for someone else to receive the knowledge, they would understand it. In a world where you are being told what to do all the time, it can be hard to step into one’s self and let it be. When we choose to take that path of self love and alignment, we find a place within us that is one of peace, truth and enlightenment, and that is the wisdom you need to allow to flow as it will lead you to your own divine path and meaningful purpose.

We are here in these bodies on this planet to learn to experience and to live in harmony with our spirituality and humanness. We are spiritual beings having  human experience, and that uniting of our souls to human heart, gives us all the direction we need to allow life’s adventures and expand out hearts and minds into what we are really here for.

Our purpose is to be of service to one another, to live in the higher vibration of kindness, compassion, collaborations, and LOVE. With these things driving us, we will walk the path of wonderment and inner love will exude that love wherever we go.

May you know how to open you soul, heart spirit and mind to the knowingness, and let yourself flow into life with a service of love and skills that helps everyone.

By Sara Troy

Podcast owner and director

www.selfdiscoverymedia.com

www.selfdiscoverycommunity.org

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Allowing the Knowingness

My soul is open to the divine and it speaks to my heart in truth, which ignites my spirit into opening my mind to what I need to know, when I need to know it. This is knowingness, being open to the source of life’s divine energy and allowing it to come through you into knowledgeable wisdom we can use.

This is my life’s beingness and only when I allow I do  receive, for anger, hate and mistrust, closes these doors, and only caringness, kindness, willingness and love will open you up the power within and above.

So how do we get there, this place of divine trust and allowing? We feel our thoughts, so much of what is in our heads is just a reflection of what is going on around us. So, STOP, close your eyes, take a breath and go in deep into your soul and allow the wisdom to come through. You can’t think it there, although allowing the thoughts to flow and not dictate is key, you give your mind permission to open up to what can be, and let the source run through you.

I know for many, this is scary, letting go of thoughts and control, but the only control we have is when we let go and go with vibrational love. We are all energy, and energy needs to be in flow, it needs constant movement, just like the oxygen and blood within us,  but we need to be still enough to know how to attach to that divine flow of life.

I have always been a knowingness person, even when I did not understand it, I knew, it was for someone else to receive the knowledge, they would understand it. In a world where you are being told what to do all the time, it can be hard to step into one’s self and let it be. When we choose to take that path of self love and alignment, we find a place within us that is one of peace, truth and enlightenment, and that is the wisdom you need to allow to flow as it will lead you to your own divine path and meaningful purpose.

We are here in these bodies on this planet to learn to experience and to live in harmony with our spirituality and humanness. We are spiritual beings having  human experience, and that uniting of our souls to human heart, gives us all the direction we need to allow life’s adventures and expand out hearts and minds into what we are really here for.

Our purpose is to be of service to one another, to live in the higher vibration of kindness, compassion, collaborations, and LOVE. With these things driving us, we will walk the path of wonderment and inner love will exude that love wherever we go.

May you know how to open you soul, heart spirit and mind to the knowingness, and let yourself flow into life with a service of love and skills that helps everyone.

By Sara Troy

Podcast owner and director

www.selfdiscoverymedia.com

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The Chance

Dianne Shaver

While everything is on hold, we are not. Our minds, our spirits, our energy is still working as usual. What’s different now is we are not rushing around and have the opportunity to pay attention in a way we usually do not. Given that, we can now begin to focus on what kind of world we want to live in and stop waiting to be told what that will be when this is over. We are all connected, not by actual contact, but by the fact that we all live on this planet. So, when we work together even on the level of thought, change does take place.

So, again, the question – what kind of world do you want to live it? Do you want a kinder more empathetic world? Do you want a world where every human is valued? Do you want a world based on integrity? Do you want a world where we use our gifts and talents? Do you want a world filled with creativity and innovation that works for all? Do you want a world where the most vulnerable are a common responsibility? Do you want a world that values the individual over money? Do you want a world where we are treated equally? Do you want a world where we support one another’s dreams and the right to be?

Obviously, that’s the world I envision. It’s clear we cannot continue as we have been. That’s one of the gifts of this time in quarantine. Again, I am not forgetting those who are suffering- those stricken and those who are caring for them, the frontline workers keeping our groceries and necessities coming. The caregivers and those who are providing essential services are all demonstrating the world I envision. Plus they are showing us what is possible when we care. It’s a very hard lesson, but if we learn it we do not have to go through things like this again.

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Every person who is caring for the ill – the doctors, nurses, technicians, those sewing masks, keeping the grocery stores open and stocked, driving the trucks that bring our food and necessities, delivering the mail, preparing and giving food to the homeless, paying employees when the business is closed, keeping the banks open and all of those who are doing similar things whom I may have not mentioned. They demonstrate what a world where we care for one another looks like. There is no reason that cannot continue when we come out of this. Ture, it will look different from what is going on right now but we cannot go back to the uncaring, dog eat dog world we had before all of this. Most of the time that attitude is cloaked in respectability and a smile and the right words, but the underlying commitment to only self and family and those who are like us is still there. I have seen people who are pillars of their community and their church spew hatred toward those who are different. This cannot be. Not if we want to survive as a human race.

Now is the time to decide what we want our culture to be. It’s not up to those in power. Change has always come from the bottom up and it has been small groups standing up for what they want that have brought every significant change. There was a saying – “what if there was a war and no one came?” We can change it to – “what if there was blind greed and cruelty and we didn’t buy into it, promote it or live it?” We do have that choice. We are not powerless. We have been told that we are but it is not true. The first thing we can do is to stop listening to “experts” and listen to our heart and what it is telling us and where it is leading us. No one can tell you what’s right for you but you. Doing that easy and small thing is the beginning of changing the world. Because from that place of truth we can do no harm, experience compassion and live a life that as meaning. And when we each do that it adds up to a changed world. We now have that chance.

Best wishes for creating a better world

Dianne J. Shaver, M.A.

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8 Wonderful years of hosting

Well if you told me that I would be doing podcasting hosting for 8 years already way back then, I would not have believed you.

My first show with Authentic You media was live and a disaster, but I prevailed 13 months of live podcasting, before going to my own network PLV Radio. That name changed 2 years later to Self Discovery Radio, then 3 years after that Self Discovery Radio/TV as I went into videos too. Shortly after that I changed it again to Self Discovery Media.

I have learned so much about myself, about human nature, about health, wealth, love and empowerment through the years that it inspired me to develop another platform to enhance my guest’s knowledge even further afield.

So two years ago, Self Discovery Community was blueprinted. Time always dictates when things should be ready to go further, and it took two years to find someone who would build a platform that could cope with the advancement.

It was meant to be ready for my 8 year anniversary on April 4th, but my developer is behind due to external pressures and working with someone who does not get technology.  ( as you can see by these sites I did myself)

So Discovering Communies.org will come to pass soon, but as I promised to deliver this content by now, I have made a makeshift site to hold the content for now till the new site is ready.  Here you will find the platform of intent and invite, we are open for business and as Self Discovery Media merges with the community sites, it will be easier to find those wonderful Mentors with their services, and our inspiring guests who share their Why with us on their extraordinary life journeys.

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So come to Selfdiscoverycommunity.org now and see what we are offering, and this will get switched over to Discovering Communities.org HOPEFULLy by May.

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We are the leaders in our own life

 

1924

Most of us are at a crossroads in life not knowing where to go or how to read the signs before us.

The journey forward is personal but also collective, the more we include those that can enable us the more cohesive and stronger the path will be. But who are the leaders that will safely guide us forward in our collective energy which will unite the world?

Can we turn to the leaders of today, the religious realm, the politicians, the governments and health sector, can we trust them to lead our mind body and soul? By my past experiences, the answer is a resounding NO.
Three things wrong with our leaders today, Ego, lack of integrity and their fear of losing control. They may start off with good intent, but the contamination of what has been before is just too deep and they cannot escape the sewage of economic greed that governs this world. It is time for a complete rebuild from the startup and with new principles that guides us and the new leadership has to be serving the individual in order to serve the collective. Help one to stand tall and you will help the world stand firm and strong.

No matter the advances we make in technologies innovations or cosmic awareness, we are as humans dumb. Fear, greed, insecurity and a longing to belong dictates our very way or life. We don’t care who gets hurt along the way as long as it isn’t us. We fear that we have to make a choice in our own lives because we are conditioned to follow like sheepeople blindly walking into slaughter without any accountability to our own lives. But when we don’t like the results, we sit there crying over how hard done by you are and blame someone else, never ourselves.

Collective conciseness is about knowing and being aware of soul, true connected self, heart, honesty and a desire to learn more to enable the world to unite in a belief (not a religion) but a faith in mankind to do the right thing for one’s fellow man and this wondrous world we live in. It is about standing up taking ownership to be willing to be vulnerable and trust, simple trust and extend the hand to another with care understanding and a desire to help them move forward into their own awareness and freedom.
When we had to count on each other for survival security and joy as a village, one took time to make sure everyone was in harmony because it served the whole village. Someone needed help the village was there, they shared in good times as well as bad and shared happiness in truth insincere joy also.

NO this is not pie in the sky idea, those that spurn this concept that is a big part of the problem. They have bought into it is all bloody miserable, so you can’t do anything about it so why try. Those people never solve anything because they have already given up and are as much dead weight at the ones that caused the problems. Just to sit there and spout what is wrong and how everyone is f—ked serves no one without a solution to the problem. No one wants to hear how bad it is but wants to know how to make it better, we are all very much aware of the wrongs in the world but how do we solve the problem without walking the same path as the leaders did?
Choices, free will belief, action, and commitment. It is all up to us. If we take ownership of our own thoughts, actions and beliefs, then we become a part of the solution. It takes YOU to make this a better world, not a world leader for you and the leader in your own life. You cannot complain if you do nothing to help out. Life living action is all about attitude. Do you believe in anything? do you do anything to make things better? Do you speak to hope? Do you think positive thoughts? Do you look to the brightness of life or do you buy into the misery? Your life is your choice, your action your belief, so if it is not living up to expectation then do something about it.

We are the leaders of the world, one positive person with belief and in commitment to take action and to make your day better by passing the good vibrations on. If we stand in our own truth, speak from the heart, speak with integrity, do not take things personally but do our very best to make our own lives a better place to live in, if we don’t judge or assume but listen and feel, we one by one make this a better world to live in.

It is up to you, are you a world leader in your own life? Are you a solution to your own problems, are you a person who is willing to give of themselves to help another? Are you a person who lives in belief? Are you a person who gives a dam? Are you a person who is willing to act on your belief and make your life better in order to make those lives around you better?
Simply put are you a part of the solution or the problem? Only you in your honesty can speak to this, and it is only your action that can lead to inner and outer balance, it is up to you, so what are you going to do about it? And when are you going to act on it?
You want to talk about it email me I would love to hear from you.
Good luck

Sara Troy

http://selfdiscoverymedia.com 

info@selfdiscoveryradio.com 

 

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